Comments on: How To Flirt Even Though You Are Shy http://www.newyorkdaters.com/how-to-flirt-even-though-you-are-shy/5/ Because everything in New York is different... Sun, 11 Oct 2009 03:43:31 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Captain Crunch http://www.newyorkdaters.com/how-to-flirt-even-though-you-are-shy/5/comment-page-1/#comment-49 Captain Crunch Sun, 11 Oct 2009 03:43:31 +0000 http://www.newyorkdaters.com/?p=5#comment-49 "Only hold the eye contact for about a second, if you hold it longer than that they may think that you are a stalker." Are you serious! If you only hold eye contact for a second it doesn't mean a thing. Listen guys DO NOT be the first to break eye contact! This is a huge mistake unless you want it to do nothing. By looking away quickly you are telling women I am a scared, unconfident boy. Even if she isn't interested you at least know wither or not she is. I have never had a problem with this method. After the girl looks away you can then look away. “Only hold the eye contact for about a second, if you hold it longer than that they may think that you are a stalker.”

Are you serious! If you only hold eye contact for a second it doesn’t mean a thing. Listen guys DO NOT be the first to break eye contact! This is a huge mistake unless you want it to do nothing. By looking away quickly you are telling women I am a scared, unconfident boy. Even if she isn’t interested you at least know wither or not she is. I have never had a problem with this method.

After the girl looks away you can then look away.

]]> By: #1 stunna http://www.newyorkdaters.com/how-to-flirt-even-though-you-are-shy/5/comment-page-1/#comment-14 #1 stunna Sun, 08 Mar 2009 22:55:11 +0000 http://www.newyorkdaters.com/?p=5#comment-14 I get really embarrassed when a pretty girl catches me admiring her. My eyes will usually dart immediately somewhere else, or worse, aimlessly into the sky, in a silly attempt to pretend I was not looking at her. I try to tell myself to maintain eye contact for a second, but I always get really nervous and shy away. It's a really nice feeling, though, when you catch an attractive person looking your way and imagine that they might have been checking you out. Or at least that's what I've heard. It has never happened to me before. One day... I get really embarrassed when a pretty girl catches me admiring her. My eyes will usually dart immediately somewhere else, or worse, aimlessly into the sky, in a silly attempt to pretend I was not looking at her. I try to tell myself to maintain eye contact for a second, but I always get really nervous and shy away. It’s a really nice feeling, though, when you catch an attractive person looking your way and imagine that they might have been checking you out. Or at least that’s what I’ve heard. It has never happened to me before. One day…

]]> By: New York Princess http://www.newyorkdaters.com/how-to-flirt-even-though-you-are-shy/5/comment-page-1/#comment-9 New York Princess Mon, 16 Feb 2009 21:57:32 +0000 http://www.newyorkdaters.com/?p=5#comment-9 not always it's that easy to flirt with someone sometimes the person you're interested into doesn't even think about flirting with you in a bar or such places maybe he likes you but if he isn't in flirting mode all your "work" is pointless... unless you have some secret weapon to turn his interest on without looking like a bitch not always it’s that easy to flirt with someone
sometimes the person you’re interested into doesn’t even think about flirting with you in a bar or such places

maybe he likes you but if he isn’t in flirting mode all your “work” is pointless…

unless you have some secret weapon to turn his interest on without looking like a bitch

]]> By: Jeff MO http://www.newyorkdaters.com/how-to-flirt-even-though-you-are-shy/5/comment-page-1/#comment-8 Jeff MO Sun, 15 Feb 2009 22:58:22 +0000 http://www.newyorkdaters.com/?p=5#comment-8 I think eye contact is always where to start from I think eye contact is always where to start from

]]> By: ChevyGuy http://www.newyorkdaters.com/how-to-flirt-even-though-you-are-shy/5/comment-page-1/#comment-7 ChevyGuy Sun, 15 Feb 2009 15:41:55 +0000 http://www.newyorkdaters.com/?p=5#comment-7 I think touch isn't appropriate if you want to let her know you're interested, assuming that there hasn't been any other occasion to show it realizing that you are not just talking but you might actually be interested in her might have a negative effect if you start with touch, even if just her hand at a table or something like this you need an appropriate situation to introduce touch, and there must be something between just simple eye contact and touch or getting close... entertaining a nice chat can be hard or easy, and in my experience it just depends on the person you have in fron of you and on what's her intention with you I may be wrong anyway.. I think touch isn’t appropriate if you want to let her know you’re interested, assuming that there hasn’t been any other occasion to show it

realizing that you are not just talking but you might actually be interested in her might have a negative effect if you start with touch, even if just her hand at a table or something like this

you need an appropriate situation to introduce touch, and there must be something between just simple eye contact and touch or getting close…

entertaining a nice chat can be hard or easy, and in my experience it just depends on the person you have in fron of you and on what’s her intention with you

I may be wrong anyway..

]]> By: Emma L. http://www.newyorkdaters.com/how-to-flirt-even-though-you-are-shy/5/comment-page-1/#comment-6 Emma L. Sun, 15 Feb 2009 13:45:02 +0000 http://www.newyorkdaters.com/?p=5#comment-6 eye contact with someone across the room is a great way to understand if there's some interest in you from the man/woman you like no doubt it makes things easier if you're going to move up to him/her and start talking: it's easier if he has already noticed you eye contact with someone across the room is a great way to understand if there’s some interest in you from the man/woman you like

no doubt it makes things easier if you’re going to move up to him/her and start talking: it’s easier if he has already noticed you

]]> By: Michael Strauss http://www.newyorkdaters.com/how-to-flirt-even-though-you-are-shy/5/comment-page-1/#comment-4 Michael Strauss Sun, 15 Feb 2009 11:47:29 +0000 http://www.newyorkdaters.com/?p=5#comment-4 I have always been a shy guy, and still I am a bit years back I forced myself to flirt with random girls, starting from those that were less attractive ( I felt much more confident than with 'playboyesque' girls ) I remember I started with the eye contact thing and it worked out pretty well ( at least for my self-confidence ) making eye contact several times before starting to talk to a girl makes it a lot easier I have always been a shy guy, and still I am a bit

years back I forced myself to flirt with random girls, starting from those that were less attractive ( I felt much more confident than with ‘playboyesque’ girls )

I remember I started with the eye contact thing and it worked out pretty well ( at least for my self-confidence )

making eye contact several times before starting to talk to a girl makes it a lot easier

]]> By: Rachel http://www.newyorkdaters.com/how-to-flirt-even-though-you-are-shy/5/comment-page-1/#comment-3 Rachel Sun, 15 Feb 2009 11:29:13 +0000 http://www.newyorkdaters.com/?p=5#comment-3 "you will find that flirting can be a lot of fun" absolutely true flirting with someone gives you strong emotions that sometimes you really need “you will find that flirting can be a lot of fun”

absolutely true
flirting with someone gives you strong emotions that sometimes you really need

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